You can love the life

you’ve made and still

be hungry for more.

Private psychospiritual mentoring for women, particularly mothers, who want more life within the lives they love.

“Why doesn’t this feel better than it does?”

You may have a life you would choose again and still wonder why being inside it feels so different from what you imagined. You love your family. You know how much there is to be grateful for. Yet pleasure feels remote, or you have an appetite for something you cannot quite name.
And then gratitude arrives to cross-examine the whole thing. What more could you possibly want?

We can explore what your longing may be telling
you, before deciding what it asks of you in practice.

You don’t need to become a new woman. You need to reclaim the woman who has been there

  all along.

I am interested in how a woman inhabits her life, including how she speaks to herself and what happens to her desires within the relationships that matter to her.
You may already understand your patterns, yet that understanding has not necessarily changed how you feel while living your life. Here we can examine what you have come to accept as true.
Reclamation includes who you are now, after everything you have lived. Our twelve weeks give us concentrated time to deepen that relationship. You will continue changing beyond them.

How you inhabit your life

Five living terrains

Self, Body, Desire, Devotion and Expansion give us places to orient ourselves. They overlap and recur. A question about partnership might bring desire into view; attending to your body might challenge a familiar idea about who you are. We follow what matters to you, with no prescribed order.

  • Who am I now?

    We explore identity and belonging, including the expectations attached to being the responsible one or the good woman. What feels true now, and what have you become accustomed to performing?

  • Can I hear myself?

    Your bodily experience belongs in the conversation. We can attend to pleasure and exhaustion, or what happens when you feel attracted, angry or reluctant. We consider what these experiences mean alongside your circumstances and capacity.

  • What do I want?

    Sex and eroticism belong here, alongside ambition, solitude or making something beautiful. Desire is information. We explore what a longing reveals before deciding whether and how you want to act on it.

  • How do I love deeply without leaving myself?

    There is a difference between being needed and being known. We explore care and intimacy in your relationships, including the invisible labour of family life, resentment and what it means to ask for more.Item description

  • How much life am I willing to let myself have?

    We consider how understanding might become a practical choice. That could concern creative work, friendship or a wish for more adventure. Your resources and commitments matter alongside your appetite.

What happens
between us

You can arrive with a conversation you keep replaying, a desire you dismiss or something you have yet to find words for. I will ask questions, offer reflections and sometimes challenge a familiar explanation. We pay attention to what you feel as well as what you think.
Psychospiritual work also makes room for questions of soul and meaning. A dream or symbolic image may help us explore an experience that resists a straightforward explanation. We can remain curious about its significance.
Our continuing relationship lets us return to what happens between conversations and consider how you want to live with what you discover.

Twelve weeks of
private work.

Seven conversations, with

room to live between them.

1 x

90 minute opening immersion

We explore what brings you and the context of your life

5 x 

Approximately every other week. Time for enquiry and for bringing your lived experience back into the conversation.

75 minute private sessions

1 x

75 minute closing and integration

We consider what has become clearer and how you want to continue.
All sessions take place online. Private voice note and text support connects our sessions, with reply days and a response window agreed before booking.
Personalised practices, reflections or resources are offered when useful. There is no course portal or rigid curriculum, and no extensive homework to keep up with.

Who is this for?

Inhabit Her brings together my training in psychotherapy, bodywork and postpartum support. I am keeping this first private round small so each woman receives sustained individual attention.
The founding investment reflects being among the first women inside this particular body of work as it continues to deepen through practice.

The founding
private round

Questions you
may be holding

You want individual attention and are willing to question what you have come to take for granted. You may feel restless or sexually disconnected, or enjoy much of your life while wanting a deeper relationship with yourself within it.
You can bring doubt as readily as an interest in spiritual ideas. We begin with your experience. If you want a prescribed programme or a guaranteed outcome, this mentorship will not offer that.

  • Longing alone cannot answer that. We can explore what you are experiencing and what matters to you about the relationship. You can begin without a verdict. This is individual mentoring rather than couples work.

  • We can begin with that uncertainty. What feels absent, or a wish you immediately dismiss, may give us somewhere to start.

  • This mentorship focuses on your relationship with yourself and how you inhabit your life. My training informs my attention, but Inhabit Her does not provide psychotherapy, medical treatment or crisis support. We can discuss what mentoring might add to your existing understanding.

  • Motherhood is an important context. Our work reaches into your wider experience as a woman. Your desires and ambitions can matter in their own right.

  • We explore the change. Taking desire seriously includes being willing to understand it differently over time. You decide what you act on, with consideration for your circumstances and commitments.

  • Our closing session considers what you want to carry forward and how you intend to support your continued enquiry. Further work is not assumed or required

  • Yes. I am based in France and work online. We confirm appointment times across our time zones before you commit.

£1,800

PAID IN FULL

or three monthly payments of £700 

Payment plan total: £2,100 

 
Both options include the same private sessions and between session support.
Tell me what brings you and what you would like to explore. I will read your application and be in touch to discuss suitability and next steps. We confirm session times and support arrangements before you decide.

for your

A life with room

appetite.

You can be grateful for what you have and serious about what you want. If you would like to explore what that means in your own life, I would welcome your application